Been Awhile

Greetings,.....ok ok ok I know yall are like see I knew this wouldn't last but hey needed time to find stuff to talk about. Now my question here is what draws a women to a certain man? Like he doesn't have to be the best looking guy in the pack....he may display some "swaggar" and yall know I don't use the term losely (everybody and they moma think they have swag now). I believe we talked about swaggar earlier before Soulja Boy made it cool. I digress......so is it his smile (same for women too, b/c fellas will overlook the obvious pretty to find the beautiful rose in the concrete) the way he dresses, his eyes, his confidence, or maybe all of the above. Now its a known fact when folks roll in packs there is always that one person that gets all the attention but then there is that one person that gets a lot of unwatched attention. Do women have the "good relations" meter in their heads? Can yall guess or figure who puts it down better than the rest? Is it the dude that doesnt say much or the one with the slight bulge.......LMAO! How do women spot this dude? And when you spot him do you already know whats going to go down....do you inspect him and his situation then assess the +/- factor what the benefits and negetives are? Are there situations where a cat has a sexual hold on you where no matter the time apart or whether or not yall have done anything at all........can he/she spark that thought in your mind? That will be the next subject sexually incarcerated.......


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The Man Woman Game

Greetings, so with the launch of Steve Harvey's book, women now feel like they have this huge upper hand on things but, I have been shelving out this advice for a long time (ok I understand I am not famous ) but now its like this emense sense of power in the "GAME" now that women have. I am not saying the book isn't good what I am saying is no matter what the "GAME" will continue to evolve men are great at deciphering things and then manipulating them. Now as far as execution we are dumb in that category but we can manage to alter the program. Now women on the other hand are the masters of controling the situation, its always a balance and shift of power/advantage. If there is any leverage to give then one party will hold it on the other, the reason why they call it the "GAME". Now I like to think of myself as having been proficient in the GAME, to a point now I don't mind giving up some of its secrets b/c I'm out of it. Women all I would like to say is if you don't think men know this book is out then you are being nieve. I will say this no matter what be very selective with your words even after reading this book b/c the predator (men) perfect the techniques on hunting the prey (women) you have to observe all the predators that are attacking you b/c when you focus you energy on one the other is on your hind picking your weaknesses out so be careful how much you reveal and what kind of standards you keep b/c a. you will run all predators off i.e. - lonely ass hell or b. you will open the gates to the jakels and they will eat you alive i.e. - more drama and no results.

Just some tidbits.........if you have senario's let me know I will be happy to share my insight lol


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What you want, what you need, what you are looking for, what you gonna find

Greetings.....ok now lets analyze some things here about the man and women relationship I am curious if women know when a man has good qualities and can't get right or he just aint right? Also have women not figured out if you lead the "friendship" with sex then we as men have established what kind of relationship it is? Ladies stop saying "i'm cool with it, I understand" you don't understand because you will always get emotionally attached. Men do misleading gestures all the time when its evolved around sex. Now I'm not saying by any means that some women can handle it and know what they want out of it (important: WHAT THEY WANT OUT OF IT). If you think that things are "all good" because he is satisfied you have lost the battle, men will be satisfied all the time if sex is the lead in pitch. Now if the understanding is that you want to build a friendship ladies you have to keep "man" on a bed of eggs that he is afraid to break. Now the catch is you cant make him feel like there is know light at the end of the tunnel because he will not lay on the bed. I digress..........to my first question can women spot a good one in "player ways"? There are alot of decent dudes out there that are afraid to settle down because out side of the oats being soiled they have not been touched emotionally where there is a connection. If the cat likes sports and you don't give a damn about sports or don't know who the Pittsburgh Bobcats are??????????????? then there is a problem. You have to like sports for the moment that like you wanting him to enjoy going in GAP, SAXE, LOUIS, GUCCI, ARDEN B, etc. find his hot spots (no pun) and cater to them in return you will get more out of it trust me. This subject is a little all over the place but I was thinking about it because I hear so much frustration on my friends behalf about no good men out there and dawg I'm going to settle down but......
The agendas have to match.......fellas learn how to listen, shut up, and learn how to take a deep breath and do what she ask. ladies learn how to leave him be, understand he doesn't like women things (shopping and reality shows), and hanging with the fellas has nothing to do with tryin to find other women.......it is HANGING WITH THE FELLAS. Now if you encompass liking sports and going out as well be careful of how much of either you indulge in because you have to make sure the main attraction in and out the house is he/she. One other note.....I don't talk about religion much ( I have my views on what GOD does for us) but please if you are not searching at bible study, Wednesday prayer night, earlier morning service, Sunday bible study, church barbecue, women's day, annual trip to carowinds then do not expect to find the holy saved man/women outside of that. I understand you want certain criteria but you cant expect you standards to be higher than want you stand to. If you want all of that but I see you at HUSH, PURE, TABU, 935, or anywhere in the A or other cities then you are not living by the standards you are looking for... If you are looking for the the saved then get saved and go find him/her in that setting. Thats all folks


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The attraction factor

Greetings......so I pose this question to a friend recently what draws people to each other? Its funny some of the answers you get but in a nut shell its all about preference. I used to have a thing about Fine, Sexy, Extremely beautiful women in ugly cars. Don't ask it was just one of my thing that and ugly shoes.....for instance (please don't take offense if you had one of these cars or shoes..) a fine women driving a old tarus (not the new ones they are nice) like 90 or 95 something like that or a fine women wearing bullet toes or something. I guess you can call me shallow but hey swaggar equals talking pretty, being pretty, looking pretty. Now I think I can talk to women and find there beauty. I think as a man you should make a women feel beautiful no matter if she is a friend or significant other....now now now dont get it twisted I address my wife totally different but, I think my friends will say I compliment and tell them that I think they are beautiful and try to encourage them. Men are shallow and a bit slow but we understand over time when some of us mature. Ladies don't get discouraged we take time to age and become the wine you want to drink... however trade in that tarus lol and those bullets and get a civic and some airforces lol....

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Thug, Good Guy, Nerd, or Ordinary, Ballers

Greetings..........Here is a question that is interesting b/c you always here women love bad boys although they know bad boys are not good for them. My question is is the Thug/Goon or whatever you want to call it as attractive as they appear to be? Why do women get drawn to Thugs? Good Guys really don't get play until the Thug does the Thug thing and that is going nowhere. The Nerd is only attractive in certain settings where his insight and knowledge are the wow factor of thats "what I need in my life". Ballers always get love b/c they some what encompass all of the above but they are more players than anything else on and off the court. Which one is the most desireable or wanted? What type of guy presents the biggest challenge for women? What makes a man intimadating.........not in a sense of fear but a sense of nervousness where he is so attractive that a. you don't know how to be around him or b. you want to keep distance b/c you know you would be attracted to a person that you are afraid to love "I'm not scared of lions, tigers, and bears....but I am scared of.....Loving you". Interesting one again but fun to talk about.


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Maybe the most interesting of all.....

Greetings...........now this one has been an accumulation of thoughts that have all come together for this particular topic. The question is, is there one person you would dropped it all for? You see it in the movies all the time but does that happen in real life? If you don't drop it all would you let your conscious and guard down to share a moment with someone? Has there been that "unfinished business scenario"? Whether its an intimate situation or just a heart to heart to let your now/then feelings all out on the table just so you can have "closure" with that person. Is there that someone in your life that you want to keep in your life b/c of the attraction but keep them at a distance for fear of what you might do? Are there people you want to see but don't really want to see b/c of your overwhelming feelings towards them despite your own situation. I find this topic interesting from past experiences where people wouldn't talk to me or didn't want to be near me b/c of bottle feelings. I can say this subject is somewhat attached to many of the other conversations but, like in the title this maybe the most interesting of them all.........let me know what you think


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What is it?

Greetings................ok its been some time now and I am trying not to bombarde you with topic after topic so I will take my time with you (lol). Now I was thinking about what life is about and how should you live it? People have their own reasons for doing what they do and "if I could do it again I would" moments. I have had some fun moments in life and some bad but I have learned from both. I believe you do run into people for reason and you share with them a moment in time for a reason as well. I am thankful for all too. My question after listening to Beyonce's DIVA song, how do "DIVAS" carry themselves socially? Ok they huslte I understand but do they indescretly "get down" b/c they feel they have the freedom to do so or does societies definition of a LADY come into play? I have seen a growing trend of women "doing me" not in a sexual sense but just living. If they are in a relationship they are happy but still have that other side, if they are single then they want to be in a relationship and have that other side. This is a interesting dynamic that I am eager to explore, can DIVAS weed out "game"? I think some women want to be smooth talked but I guess it would depend on who the smooth talker is and what she wants him to do. Which leads to my next question what is a good "game", can you be talked out of your drawls or do you just know from the moment you see 'him' that he can "get it"? I love hearing this because women "hate" the games but some like being wrapped up in it (the good situations). Is there really a Player out there since sooooooooooo many women can check game at the door but there are some smooth as a babys butt laying on a silk blanket guys out there who can smile and all hell breaks loose. Tell me about...........I would love to hear this one


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Sweeter the Juice

Greetings.....so I got on the subject of memorable moments and how long those impressions last. Is it possible to have those one of a kind experiences that no matter how long the time differential that if the thought of that moment just runs thru your soul as if it was happening all over again. Thats what you call the "bomb" lol, and people just have to share it with others or just keep it bottled up. What would be the case......is it something you have to tell or something you have to say "g.damn" I can't tell anyone about that ish b/c it was unreal. Its amazing how strong the mind is....and how it makes memories last forever.

Short and to the point...........don't want to be too long


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Time

Greetings, so I figure instead of daily blogs I will give some time in between blogs, nothing much has been going on other than work. Valentines Day is coming up and I think I will keep it simple but special again this year. Flowers........tie balloons on the car while she is at work put a card in the car (two sets of car keys are great) and dinner at Ruth's Christ.......nothing much has been up for discussion just watching the world turn and people revealing their lights. Funny how you begin to see things and how things get presented to you. I am wise beyond my years when it comes to relationships and the dog vs. cat chase. I know most dudes say that but, trust me......I am hell when it comes to knowing the In's and outs and how to play it. So with that being said I am having counseling sessions on here now....lmao and I will have to look at a talk show or something....I am the official pistol starter lmao.


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Strange Religion

Greetings, I was watching this thing on Ted Haggard the evangelic pastor who was having relations with a boy, male hooker, and doing drugs and now he is about to be famous for his sins. I am curious to know why do we somehow find a way to glorify this behaivor? Also his church banished him from presiding over them. Now if they are of the faith then shouldn't they forgive him and let him pray for forgiveness? Now this is a topic that I definately want to stay away from (religion that is) b/c everyone has there own opinions. However I think this particular case everyone can have a comment on. How is it the HBO is taking this "reality show" of his life and trying to make it a source of entertainment? The man's wife who has probably endured more abuse than her husband has managed to forgive him and try to move forward, which leads me to the question was this a way to "get famous"? To me his interview was a little bit awkward because he is self proclaiming his problems and is almost looking for the forgiveness (which.....he may deserve) but it was almost a plea to say I lied now I am admitting my guilt. Strange very strange funny thing is I am a Law and Order buff so a lot of these real life cases they make on L & O so you can sort of see how they can be interpreted. Sorry to jump off the scale but this was very very very strange to see this this moring on the today show



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Another Day

Greetings, pardon my absence but hey work comes first. So I have been floating through this thing called life for about a week now and have'nt stumbled on any revelations. I realize that another friend of mine is have relationship problems and I feel bad for her cause she is attractive, smart, good job, and she is not aggrevating like some women (notice some) can be. I don't know any guys right now I could introduce her to because a. they are tied up b. I know their intentions. Why is it that good women get passed over......well hell excuse me I can answer that. Let me re-phrase the qustion: Why can't men learn how to get their shit together? I mean I agree we (men) are trying to figure out how to treat a women well into our late 20's and early 30's but, why can we figure it out. To me there is a way to treat a women and still have her acknowledge your imperfections. The better a women understands you faults the easier it is. For instance going out to dinner, movies, movies at home etc. then the next night wanting to hang with the fellas or go to the bar and chill without coming by (only a phone call). That will piss a woman off usually especially if things look like there going in the right direction but, it the make up process that helps. Also why can't we figure out that even when a woman consents to sex she is open herself up to have feelings which as a man we try to avoid. How come we have not figured it out yet that even though she acts like it's consensual and all is good that she will not catch feelings. They catch feelings all the time almost every time so fellas know this before you lay it down what you are about to do is lay the ground works for some sort of relationship. Anywho I babbled for a little bit but my point is so many dudes claim to know the "game" but, they really don't understand it, end result good women become harder to find and good men get tossed in the pool of badness.



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44

Greetings, now I have said on a few occassions I would'nt get into politics but, the fact that this MAN is making this remarkable step is something we must all sit back and say progress. Now I will add I take a different approach to the said "brother, black man" taking office. This MAN is neither black nor white and only by Jim Crow and rules of the past defines him as such. Now I am not discarding the fact that he has color...no no no not at all but, we the people of the United States have to understand that the states have been united for quite some time its' the people who haven't so as it has finally manifested itself we are finally becoming the United People of America. Why do we continue to say racial barriers are being broken when we still put a title of "the black president" by what law qualifies this MAN as being black? He is the peoples people he is white and he is black, he has lived both lives and embraces that fact. Now I can almost assure when the said "brother" was growing up and living with his "white" family that he was shunned and outcasted by both ethnic groups because he didn't fit in either. Now all of a sudden he, is this great BLACK MAN because he is darker than the other 43, he has swaggar as my buddy EJ said, he relates with his African bretheren. This is the biggest stepping stone in American history to let a man that has color run the country that was built by the very people it oppressed. Considering we have come along way lets not undermind all who fought for freedom. It goes further than MLK (great ambassador) who was able to have a hightended platform to get us to the "Promise Land". To have a High School in Mississippi that has had it's first intergrated prom in 2008 says that strides have been made but there is a lot of covering up going on as well. Just because we are not facing the hoses and dogs doesn't mean the fight is over it has just shifted to mental battle i.e. we are the majority in the prison system which is part of the reason we can't ever have a voice in society b/c inmates don't get that privilege, we "gangs" instead of fraternities and sororities trying to make change.....killing each other which is a lose lose a. we die b. we continue to our residency in the prisons. 2008 and first intergrated prom ......2008! Now I am not taking away this life and world changing moment, i am just saying don't let the media over hype it to the point to where we think we have achieved something greater than the struggle. I also watched some brothers state their cases of working hard to be able to get where you want (not being negative) but, there is a thing called affirmative action which is more prevelant now than it was 20 years ago. Yes we have overcome many obstacles and I am thankful for all the struggles my people have gone through for me to get where I am but, BUT have we ever sat and thought that we are in some of the positions we are in to say here we will give you this so you can shhh for awhile? I will take all of that everyday because the bigger the crack in the door the greater the opportunity for us to get in a prove our worth but BUT folks do not get it twisted the ancestors fought the physical battles and wars so we would'nt have to now it is up to us to fight the mental, social, political wars so the next generation can take another giant step. Knowledge is Everyting.....don't be nieve....be aware, be thankful, be hopeful, be thoughtful, most of all be stedfast.

Brotherhood, Scholarship, Service is what a wise man once told me.


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Socialite.........

Greetings, ok today I want to get into the social realms and figure out what makes someone popular, corny, etc. The extrodinary swaggar that so few have but so many want....can you obtain it or is it an uncanny ability to catch the eye of those around you. Is it appearance is it, who you know, or is it who knows you? What gives certain folks a "celebrity" status with in the circle of their peers? Ladies what does a guy have to do (this day in age) to catch your eye without even speaking or looking your direction. Can you spot swaggar and cool from a mile away or do you have to get in the persons personal space to feel his/her cool? I know a lot of cool people but, there are few I just look at and say damn she got it going on...ya know. No action warranted just a daydream moment when you think intimately about that person i.e. what if? Swaggar has been around for a long time but, not til T.I. came with the song people have been talking about it so much (I guess that's the cool thing to be now...no more thugs or goons (whatever that is)). Everybody wants to have swaggar......................even if you may not be that attractive (or at least you have'nt appeared to be in the past) is there a way to suddenly have a swag about you that makes you cute, fine, or sexy which I think being sexy is far better than any other compliment because to me sexy means that you have something about you that is against the norm and it draws people to you. Well I'm keeping it short but, this is a hellova topic..........



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Today.....

Greetings,.............ok today is not as exciting but, needless to say I am thankful for all the people I deem friends. I always have indulging conversations with them and they help fuel these blogs.
Nothing much new today but, just asking myself when do you know you have a "friend" a confidante? Someone who can hold their word with you? In this day in age how do you know when to invest your time into someone? People you have had experiences with that you can hold on to forever. I know many many many many people (most people do) and I know (I'm not nieve) they talk about me....some good, some bad, some care not to speak. I have too many flaws to even go down the list but, I must say for those I deem friends I have never destroyed their character even through disagreements. Not saying by any means someone has deliberately tried or is trying I was just thinking of all of those I talk to on a constant. Those who know a little bit more about me than the average. Know my imperfections but embrace it and don't judge, those who try to help me when I question myself. How or when do you know that that person is in your corner because over a lifetime you never know what will happen next? Strange discussion today but, just one of those reflection days where I have to say I appreciate everybody who is pro Luc or against Luc. lol.........

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Ladies..........

Greetings,...........so i was talking to my buddy Apple Jacks again and we got on the conversation on good guys and bad guys. There are very few good dudes left out there and same goes for the ladies. The challenge is fighting temptation unfortunately being "cool" can only go but so far. There are good dudes you have to bring the goodness out, we (men) are so lost right now that we are losing our souls and the only thing besides GOD (who created woman as our strength and balance) is woman that can save us. Easier said than done, you will notice a lot of men showing great qualities in the beginning then they start falling off. Reason is because we may realize we have a good woman then fear sets in like "damn is this it" is this the one. Whether it is or not we fear the thought of being commited (in the aspect of having someone to answer to). All of us want to be in a relationship and the ones that came "player, MOB, or whatever" are the one's that desparately want it but, feel an obligation to maintain societies brainwashing. We are easily influenced by our surrounding where women are influenced my wisdom. We poses the strength and security women look for and women poses the reason, wisdom, and feelings that we lack. Together they are balance apart they are chaos i.e. "dogs" and "ho's". How do we defeat this battle because with the rise of homosexuality it makes it difficult because the battle is not just with the opposite sex its same sex now too (i'm not oppose to gay relationships, if thats you do you). We men have to stop subjecting ourselves to being providers, lovers, and players. That mentality gives birth to..."I buy, you eat, you have" therefore you can't say anything to me. Women have to stop as well, now with the independence ( I don't need a man concept) that too is very misleading if not wrong, women's emotional override needs the lack of emotion a man provides to balance things out (you don't have to like what I say just think about it and say yeah he is right). Now to figure how do I keep a good man, or how do I find one. You don't, we will discover you because you could have a good one in front of you (that shows signs of being good but also has player qualities). The best player will make the best husband or boyfriend if....and I mean IF he is intune with you and what you bring to him (I am speaking balance). The best "player" understands a womens needs, wants, and knows how to cater to her therefore he is in tuned.....now on the other hand he is also the most timid one of the bunch b/c he knows that if he is "tamed" then he (in the eyes of his peers) has punk'd out. You may not agree but, its the truth. I for example knew I could be a good man but, I tried and failed (I got hurt once) and then was "scared" of putting myself out there again so I was the ultimate "player" so to speak not prolific in terms of flaunting it I found myself to be the "player" that you would want to be involved with but, were scared to because you knew I was a "player" lol strange I know but very true (I could be a good man but, I did'nt want to be). It took my wife who understands me to challenge my "player" (she made it a competition between me and my conscious) which is the biggest key to a "player" (his ego, his confidence, his knowledge, his unwillingness to conform). Now once you reverse his phsycology meaning, you challenge him to be with one and for him to believe "he still got it". That is power in a "player's mind" knowing that if I want to I could. That is the difficulty finding his hot zone his comfort and playing the player against hisself. How do you do it...................well that's the question but, once you learn it he is yours. looking to hear back so I can elaborate......


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Monday

Greetings, it is another monday moring and of course I am in the office but, I have to take time to engage in this blog. Great conversation last week on a variety of platforms, now I am asking the question what makes a relationship a relationship? Is it the first time you have relations? Is it the first kiss? Is it a designated time in which you indulge yourself with a person? Ladies in particular, you get this all the time.....when you are just "kicking it" and after your night of relations, feelings get involved and next thing you know your trying to figure out where you stand. Trust that fellas get caught up but, we don't like to admit it hence the distance and the uncertainty of where things actually stand. Are one nighters annomalies (sp), are one nighter accepted, are one nighters ok? Is there every an occassion where a physical relationship makes sense or is warranted? There are many occasions (a past relatioship i.e.) were the commonality is a great physical attraction (a lot of unbeleivable nights, mornings, evenings, lunch, I digress) and there is not much socially....is it healthy to maintain that or just stay away from it? What if there is an immense social attraction that is not healthy to take any further even tho by thought it would make sense to try.


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True Love

Greetings,..................ok the topic today will be short and brief.......its a simple question is thier a "Soul Mate"? What does it mean? Is there more than one? There are millions of people in the world from all backgrounds and ethnicities. Think about personalities of all the millions of people in the world, is there just one the goes perfect with you or is the several.....? Is it a matter of finding them, them finding you, or the stars being aligned? Now if that happens, what happens if there is more than one and you meet that person?

Today is interesting because I think that question has been posed but, not been explored in depth.


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Curiosity Kills...

Greetings.......I have pondered this thought for quite some time, and looking at my dating career lol, and that of friends (male,female). Has there ever come a time where you were attracted to a friends significant other or attracted to a friend of a friend but, you know you cant say anything because of the complexities of the relationships involved? This I think is a very very interesting topic to explore. I mean has there been an occassion where you have thought about someone beyond "hey my name is......nice meeting you?". I bring this up after listening on the moring show about Brad Pitt and the questions of him cheating with Angelina Jolie on Jennifer Anisten. I mean that is the hot topic now considering they have been married now for what 2 years.....that is the hot news this moring......I digress badly! Now back to the topic, Brad mentioned that they worked together on the set of Mr. and Mrs. Smith for over a year now him and Jen were on the outs but, the fact is I think he may have met Angelina long before and was like "damn" and she remained on his mind and vice versa. Now back to the question of is there anyone you have met in the past where they stayed on the brain and you said to yourself "man, if the right opportunity came around......it's going down or if they become available to where it wont be complicated then I'm on it"

Tell me



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SO

Greetings.......so I spent all day running around like a chicken with the head cut off but, needless to say I had some down time to think about the holidays, resolutions, and goals. I think one of my goals is to maintain confidence in what I am doing and who I am we so often get lost in the shuffle. So many things on my plate and just trying to hone in on one of them for the beginning of '09. I have been blessed and fortunate to be given a lot of the recent opportunities that I am ready to maximize them. Part of my resolutions were to work out (to get my "damn" back) and be a better daddy, husband, brother, friend, mentor. It's difficult being a brother this day in age and keeping your identity, once again that can get lost in the shuffle. Having an opportunity to do things outside of the box and inside were great to end 2008 now its time to capitalize. I met new people who I think will become apart of my circle (you must surround yourself with like minds in order to be successful). I will challenge myself and others to push for more (unfortunately living in SC is not the fertile promise land like most major cities.....but, it's a gold mine here). For all the women who I deem friends please if you are looking for guidance in relationships do not hesitate to ask me because I have been around the block and back many times so I know the game and how it has evolved...i digress.

So I'm wondering what '09 will bring because '08 provided a lot of challenges financially, spiritually, socially, and mentally. I have come to realize that no matter if you are married women will still test you, I realize as simple as a little extra work from a small investment so you can make extra money is not as easy as it should be. I realize that bills don't stop they keep coming, I realize that The MOS HIGH puts obstacles in your path so you can face them and be prepared for your blessings as long as you have faith and understand its not up to "you". I realize not everyone is on your side so it was another year of learning, growing, and believing.


This year will be fun, exciting, prosperous, and ...the beginning


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Beauty in the eyes

Greetings............now I had some time to sit and think yesterday on lunch and was curious to know what makes a person fine, sexy, beautiful, ugly, cute, etc. to somebody else. Man Law - men have a grading scale and some guys are way way way way off and most are pretty accurate. I am curious if the opposite sex knows these grading scales or are they aware of only a particular persons judgement? Man Law - 34:5 we look all the time, not to disrespect but, by habit I guess you can say by nature no matter if the person is voluptuous, skinny, built, tall, short, or fat it doesn't matter we look to put it on the scale (if it falls on it at all). Yes we are shallow like that but, hey...................so is riding in the new e-class, range rover, l series etc for women (so whatever ladies if you are saying "uh uh"). It seems once we learn what the person is about or like then we re-measure where they fall i.e. if you have a dime that is stuck up she then becomes like a 7 or 6 even ya know. Some what interesting topic, I mean I have seen some women that I know by consensus she would not be a "dime piece" but, I find that something about her and it makes her sexy.................

lets talk about it



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I'm Back

Greetings, I apologize for being gone for so long but, I had a lot of work to get done and I was'nt near a computer to say anything.

Needless to say I had a wonderful holiday season and a solid new year even though my team lost for their bowl game. I had alot of time to just sit and think about what I would like to achieve in 09, I need to be more in tune with my higher self, make better decisions both business and personal, make money as well as start giving back. I would like to start working out so I can trim down and get back to how I used to be, I'm ok now but I was a specimen just a few years ago. I have been become curious about a few things a. where this economy will be in the next 6 months b. how many more challenges will I face. I know the MOST HIGH puts these challenges in place for a reason I'm just wondering how will I fair or succeed.

What will the male and female aspect of life bring in this new year, we continue to amaze each other and in some cases we are very entertaining to others, Well this is my welcome to 2009 and lets just say I think I will have a lot of new topics to explore.


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