Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Xmas EVE

Greetings,.................so I will start by saying I had a good time last night at this all black xmas party. Now there are a few points I would like to evaluate: 1. If its all black shouldn't/doesn't that mean ALL black? 2. Are all black parties popular b/c you literally do not have to shop (if you do its easy) or really groom much...no ironing or anything (dark club dark clothes no one knows)? 3. Why do dudes wear sun glasses in the night club.....what part of sun or night gets confusing? Just a few things I saw and was curious to find an answer to. Anyway it was fun hanging out with the fellas and having a good time (ladies strangly enough good men consider a good time hanging with their boys, drinking a cocktail/wine, and standing by the wall).

On to another topic this is after having a conversation with my homie AppleJacks, and she couldn't make it last night but, I understood (she is another good friend and I like to see all of us at one time when possible) but it's the reason why. .............ok here is where I elaborate, her significant other (i presume) essentially had a problem with her going out.....which is kinda weird b/c usually the shoe is on the other foot (I'm married and been with my wife for 5 1/2 years (1 1/2 married.....i digress) women are the one's normally like "why you got to go out?" but for a dude to say it its a little weird to me. Now I understand spending time and if you are not getting the attention you want then righfully so you should command it but, men do not think like that we don't mind (most fella's I know) if you go out b/c that gives us us time. Playstation (MAN LAW 12:3), ESPN (MAN LAW 1:1), at your boy's house who has the pool table (MAN LAW 56:2), or going out to bar to grab a beer or wings (MAN LAW 2:34) now on the other foot women are like "hell no, what you need to be out for, you aint single no more etc." lol, ladies you know I'm speaking the truth here. Nervous about that "other chick" whether she exist or not, most of the time we just want to be out with the boys, clown, drink, and have a good time nothing more than that. Now I will address this fact and it is a fact this would fall under LOVE LAW 10:10 if she is getting on your nerves, asking you a million questions, not intune to your "needs", nagging, and just always trippin then by LOVE LAW 10:10 a man doesn't have the right to leave or misconduct himself but, understand if all those factors play into that LAW then ladies you have a potential disaster on your hands. Now, am I approving it no by no means and should we be more sensitive to your needs YES I am a advocate of that but, MEN are from MARS; WOMEN are from VENUS we do not and I mean DO NOT think the same way. So ladies a bit of advice from someone who has become a better man through past experiences (my previous relationship) if you have a sociable man on your hands (typically a sagitarius(or fellas if your woman is a sag)) then by nature they are comfortable amongst people and if you are not (typically pisces and gemini's) then you have to understand it.....I did'nt say let it slide but, you must realize that fact is what it is. Now on the flipside the more "freedom" we (i'm speaking for sociable people) have the more we are in tuned to your wants and need and matter of fact we responed better to the lact of questioning. Anyway that was a lot and we will shut this down for today........I'm sure I will get some feed back if not I will add more tomorrow (yes I know its Xmas day but, by 5pm its a normal day lol)

to be continued.........


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Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Slow Monday

Greetings, ................so yesterday was pretty dull not much happening. Worked then went to my old high school to watch them play in this big holiday tournament outside of that nothing really sparked my interest. Nothing was on/in the news worth noting and I haven't had any interesting dreams lately. I do have a thought tho, for the ladies......fellas please don't feel neglected i have a bunch in store (about the importance of m.n.f., college game day, NBA on TNT, and 'hanging with my boys tonight') but, ladies have you ever been drawn to a man who wasn't the finest thing in the party but, just had that "swagger"? I'm curious to know about this swagger phenomena. "No one on the corner has swagger like us" I mean what is swagger I know for me its a women who doesn't have to say anything doesn't really have to look my way or even smile........you can just see her gleaming from the inside. Interesting, I want to hear more about this swagger thing



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Monday, December 22, 2008

Interesting....

Greetings.....so I had quite an entertaining weekend first I took my family to the basketball game which we won and second, I got to hang out with my co-workers playing rockband or guitar hero (whatever you call it), had a few cocktails and then went out after that (let's just say it was a first for numerous reasons). I had a great time I must say and will be looking forward to doing it again. Another reason for me to love what I am doing.


Now to cover a few things that I saw or heard this weekend first my damn STEELERS lost which was not so bad b/c we lead the division however I was pissed at the lack of class the young tit-ans show but, he its football....i.q. is not that high for some (i digress).

I read in the paper about the NFL laying off like some 1,100 workers which falls back to my friday blog of why in the hell do people who make betweem 25k - 50k get layed off while athletes continue to sign 15k/day type salaries, the executives also? This will continue to baffle me in this time of RECESSION. We will dive in to more details later....

Now to the "meat" of what I was going to discuss last week on performance....ladies this question is for you: Is size important? Length, gerth or both? Is it simply rhythm and being able to work with what you have? Does expectations hurt (meaning you have someone you have heard about or they brag on themselves)? I'm curious to know (not like I would use this knowledge). I have been told that I did well (past tense people lol) a. b/c of the surprise! b. i knew what i was doing, now that is not to brag or embelish my capabilities but, its just to say I did'nt get any negetive reviews (or so I don't think). Tell me this if it was bad ladies or gents would you tell your partner? I don't think I could do that, I had some bad one's and I just kept it to myself. This is a interesting topic that I would like some feed back on.......let me know



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Friday, December 19, 2008

Superficial

Greetings,.........ok so I was listening to Michael Basden show yesterday and heard the strangest thing about a "Brazilian Butt lift" and thought to myself.....WOW not wow like more nice booty to look at (although i'm not really complaining) but, just thinking the extremes we go to make ourselves pleasing to the eye. Now I must admit I like a nice round bottom and wait...i'm digressing. This really stood out to me just thinking about all the women (most cases, asian, caucasion) that don't really have a history of nice booties. However, there are many exceptions and I will add I'm not really that much into butts (it really irrelevant that comment) but a nice ass is very nice to look at (all men look so forget trying to say you don't fellas if you are reading this, well unless you are gay (which is cool if thats you)). How big is too big tho, when you look at Buffie and all those women, is that not border line fat? Now magazines make it real attractive but, to me that like seeing what Vanessa Williams looks like without make-up maybe misleading. Interesting how cosmetic surgery has changed the world and made people even that much more insecure....but, society is part the blame too. All in all I guess if that's what you want to do then by all means do it, but, why not enjoy you for who you are and not wanting to enjoy you cause of what someone else thinks. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and I can tell you right now if you have a nice ass and big breast, thin waist, long/short hair, and have the bad attitude noone will pay you any attention trust me. Be you........
Besides in my own personal experiences the super fine, thick, or well balanced (lol) females can't take the.........uh lets just say they are better for public display (that was very man like, sorry i'm not trying to offend but you understand what I'm saying) or maybe they could'nt handle me....or maybe I sucked.............hmmmmmmmmmmm something else to discuss, thats going to be a good one don't miss my next blog on performance lol!

Enjoy the weekend folks.....check me out monday I should have lot's to say


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Thursday, December 18, 2008

So Tell Me......

Greetings..............so I said to myself I would'nt discuss the economy but, I was watching the moring show and was seeing something about a 50 billion dollar scam or fraud or whatever and I thought to myself and we wonder why we are in the situation we are in. My personal opinion the gov knows of these wrong doings and there are certain people in power that are probably benefitting from this, now if you don't know me i am big on conspiracies and I have a whole list of them but, we will get into that later (i digress..) so this cat came up with a 50 billion dollar scheme that this man made machine called Wall Street is just now figuring out........yeah right. If the gov can tap phones, have satelite transmission to see what you are doing, etc. they have to know stuff like this is going on. Now my opinion is that sense the economy is the way it is to avoid the really really big frauds and scams to come out they are slowly going to rat on the middle people. We have been duped for a long time unfortunately. Sooooooooooooo that was my moring and just thinking what can you do with 50 billion dollars.

I am even more shocked a professional sports (i am a former athlete so I understand getting that money for playing ball) but, we are in a RECESSION people.....getting an extra 20 million dollars to me is minute in comparison to the families that are getting kicked on the streets (feel me). I think it has become way way way to selfish and less entertaining now that we have mega stars, mega churches, mega athletes, hell the entertainment (sports) industry could bail this country out by it self. Now, I had the honor and was blessed to play in Europe for 5 1/2 years and made a good living. The polotics of playing over there and playing in the US is completly and I mean completly different if a team doesn't want you the send you packing and alot of times without money....now in the LAND OF OPPORTUNITY a team doesn't want you the send you packing to another team that will pay you and the team that sent you still has to pay what they owe. Strange but, hey I guess it fits....and we wonder why they are catching up to us because in order to survive you have to perform, here these superstars complain when they play bad, they sit on there ass and complain b/c people are wondering.....In this time of recession all I have to rely on is my sports hero lol and this fool is holding out to get more millions added on to his, guess what MILLIONS! We can't even get the millionare celebrities to come to my city and do anything.....they love their state..........uh NOT. On the contrary I can understand why, this place has alot of demons (another conspiracy that we will talk about later, i digress) and its portrayed everywhere. I love my SOUTH but, let's face it, it's the SOUTH and you know what that means.
I went on a tantrum excuse me, so back to the millionaires who are sitting on there 20k dollar couches and stuff you have regular folks helping families in need, buying their homes so they don't get kicked out (while the gov is trying to get their money to save the economy) and you have all these rich folks that could give back to the city to the counties bail out your communities SUPERSTARS! I'm not rich by no means but, I am helping those who I can with what little I have.

Last topic:
Some folks in OHIO just won $207 million, I mean damn......15 people hit and I must say, I am hating but, I am sooooooooooooooo happy for them especially the one brother that took a chance with the group. That's like 13 mil a piece.....well after UNCLE SAM THE SCAM takes his cut it will be more like 7 but, still that can save a family for generations to come, it could help others in need. Now I have been designing my lottery plan and I already know where my donations will go if I ever hit the big one, not in this order per say. Church, Schools, Family, Community.....I am going to give mine back. If I won and got 7 million out of it I would probably keep 3-4 and spread the other 3-4 out to those entities. 3 million can last a long time if you know what to do with it. Well that is my rambling for the day, yesterday GOD was just as good as yesterday and the day before and today and the days after.



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Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Not Much

Greetings,

Today is kinda dry, nothing much going on. I had an entertaining dream last night in which my humor (which for those that don't know me, I am halarious ) I was mcing an event and realized in my dream that I was of course in 3rd person but, I was laughing my ass off in my own dream. I was listening to the stuff I was saying and really like laughing, then I had to shift my position b/c it was time to move and lost the damn dream. If you are reading this I know you are saying to yourself...."man I hate when that happens". Very true I fished and fished to find that incredibly funny dream and all I got was...................................................................................................
that nothing but, sleep.


Well I will say I am blessed and thankful for getting up again to tell this story but, nothing much went on yesterday just work and realizing that I have a really good job and my creativity and my reaching out to an untapped community is going to be hard but I think I can do it. I'm young I am funny as hell (i digress), I am smart, I good enough looking to look at for a second glance on the 3rd you will probably be like "he's cute....ah ok" lol, so its time to put it together my school is making strides to overcome some long lasting barriers and I'm glad that I am apart of it. well thats all for today

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Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Curious

HI, ok now to the good stuff so I was talking to my buddy Petite6 yesterday and we were joking around about xmas gifts. Anyhow we got on the subject of thongs and sexy attire for special occassions, I was like what is the point of wearing anything at all because it is going to come off....right? I really have'nt understood the point of "wearing something sexy for somebody". I get it but, I don't understand it....I mean yeah it looks nice when you walk in the door but within 10 mins its gone and probably will never be seen again. Flashback: I had this girl I was talking to back in school (she will forever be nameless), we were'nt dating we just were "friends" lol (for those of your who know me stop guessing). Anyway it was Feb 14th and she put on something "sexy" for me and it was cool but I don't think she trimmed the hedges very good cause there was a lil sprouts hanging out the sides which as you can imagine made me laugh inside but, hey I was having to stay in the moment, outside of that we had a great night (i digress) but, my point is a. if you are going to do that......get a fade b. just bald it down for the occassion. WOMEN fyi it is not sexy to have hair hanging out the Secrets. Which brings me back to what I am saying, it will be coming off anyway so WHY buy it? Now on the other hand I had a better experience in school when a young lady (unfortunately I was active my first 2 years, shoot me I was a college boy) came to visit me in a robe with some nice fitting Secrets on underneath she had it together, she came in teased me a little bit and left and told me her door would be open......can you say roadrunner high speed ( i digress), 2 different experiences same results but, I think its all about the presentation, would'nt you say? Bottome line is if you are going to do it make sure you do it to the fullest don't half @ss the occassion, also realize that you just waisted money on a item that will be seen for about 5-10 mins and then poof its gone into oblivion cause you can't wear the same sexy thing twice.....women law 56:9

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Monday, December 15, 2008

Good weekend but I have some thoughts..

Greetings to all,

So this weekend I got to hang out with some friends and do what we do.....domino's, food, and drinks. I also celebrated my 29th birthday. Its amazing how far I've come and I am proud to say its been a great 29 looking forward to the next birthday good willing. I also had time to reflect on my past and think about all the people that I have had encounters with. Quite interesting I must say, I have had some wild times, some bad ones, and some thank you lord ones (although I say it everyday). I thought about all the things that I did'nt do.....I will leave that right there but needless to say I am back at work this monday morning and saying I am blessed.

Enough of all the formalities I am curious to know why artist keep coming out with this independent woman stuff? Now I am all for women having thier own and being successful but, we can not coexist without each other. On the other hand we can't co-habitate at the rate we are either, now I am an supporter of being who you are and "doing you" as my mom's says "shit happens" (i digress) but, why is there so much influence on women having theirs and men having theirs....has anyone heard the saying "a house divided.....". I believe that is one of the major problems we have today is that men and women now think seperately. Men is "M.O.B." and women are all about "I don't need a man for ish...". I love women and I am thankful for the one's in my life, the one's I had experiences with, and the one's that still want to have experiences with me (I cannot entertain). I say that because with out a woman or women I am not motivated to look nice, to wear nice clothes, to get my ish together. I realized yesterday why I love my wife as much as I do because a. she understands me b. she works hard c. she wants to support the family but still proclaims her independence. I love that she does'nt have to work but, she wants to feel like she is contributing and loves what she is doing. That is beautiful to me, we have an ole school love, I admit I am not perfect and I strive everyday to be perfection for her but, I have my short comings. Bottome line is that we need each other and although entertaining I just think this INDEPENDENT things is going way too far.

Well I have more to say on some other topics but, I will leave that for tomorrow


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Friday, December 12, 2008

Women

greetings..........yeah yeah yeah salutations and all that, so I was sitting at home last night and I started thinking about all the females that I was really close with, and realized I am not close with them anymore. I have heard a common theme or realized that this maybe the reason why. That we get close enough to start liking each other and then when nothing ever happens its like we have to distance ourselves from one another, and then it dies. Lost contact, short conversation, the jokes don't seem to make me laugh as hard anymore, and that uncomfortable feeling of being around someone you are attracted to but you don't want to be or let's say you know you can't be attracted to. Just curious to why things like that happen? From the women or men who follow this give me some feed back, this is great couch talk, on why this happens.

It did happen to me once and then I ended up marrying one of my true friends.....maybe that is the fear....


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Thursday, December 11, 2008

and so it is left to be said

Hello everyone and welcome to Food For Thought or couch talk however you want to call it.
today i got to work and realized that it has been a couple of weeks and i really have'nt done anything. i have made lots of calls and even reached out to some folks I did'nt think I could reach.....anyhow with all this time to just sit and wonder about things I wonder if I am the token thrown in to spice things up or am I the guy who can get the job done. I realize that I like what I am going to be doing but, right now it seems kinda empty since I don't know the full operations of things.

I decided to do a blog so people could ask questions, vent, even get advice. I must say I'm not an expert but, for the women out there that are trying to figure out what to do about "dumb men" which we are in a sense, I am here to answer the questions or comment on the subjects that are presented.

Well enjoy and lets really dive into some interesting topics...because believe me for those who know me, know their is no telling what I will say....

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